If you’re in the market for romance, send out the right signals, says Dr Georgina Barnett, lead psychologist at the up-market dating agency Seventy Thirty. “Make sure you look friendly, open and receptive, so people know they can come and chat to you, and you’re not going to be hard work,” she says.
When we know we can totally trust our partners, we feel at ease. It does not only make us feel good about our partner; it also builds our internal security so that we feel better about life in general. Having someone we can trust and rely on at all times aids us in taking those risks that help us grow and develop.
Place your totem somewhere you can easily and frequently see it and “focus on building a strong association between this and your experience as a sexual being”, Georgina says. “Whether or not you are in a relationship it’s important that your symbol is about you rather than yourself in relation to a partner so that you nurture this aspect of yourself for you.”
From the passionate and tender moments, to writing your thoughts and expressions of your love in your vows; love can be very intricate, unique and individual but the most pure and treasured form. It is something the whole world shares in common we are all able to love, even if it is just ourselves for a while. Love is a collective experience and it is always better when shared, no matter how many times we share it!
One of the most beloved figures in literature is Pride and Prejudice’s Elizabeth Bennet, an intelligent and determined woman of 20 years. Elizabeth is self-educated, witty and quite determined to marry a man of her choosing, if she marries at all. “I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to you, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me.” Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice (1813)
In the previous blog post, we discussed the impact of artificial intelligence on relationships. With numerous arising platforms that offer a virtual lover, it could only be a matter of time when robots start stealing our hearts. Companies are making huge investments in this field, so one day you might have your own robot who is a perfectly tailored match